I hope so. I'd likened our situation to being between girlfriends our last good one (DL) was a wee bit silly but she had cool mates and helped us out at the biggest party we'd been invited to in 10 years. That sadly fizzled out and you realise her cool pals were actually all backstabbing pricks. We went on a bit of a bad patch with our ex's pals trying to make sure we were alright. Though none of them had the magic to keep us 'up'. We were then set up with a couple of munters who were just rebound jobs. We then managed a one night stand/maybe even a short affair with a straight 10. She was cracking in bed, looked great you could take her to meet your parents, you could take her to a bowling club or the player of the year awards and she would shine, you always knew you were punching but thought 'f**k it I'm going to enjoy this while I can'. You have a great time with her she makes you popular with other people and gets your confidence up, she also has a really cool bunch of friends. She then gets called from a company in London who offer her a salary hike that will make her very rich and she has to take it. Ok your gutted when she's leaves but you understand why she's going and there was no way you were going to move with her and have to travel back up every Saturday to get to see the saints. And she's left you some other straight 10's (McGinno etc) to look after you.