I'm another who knew the face, not the man. It's a pity it take a tragedy to unite everyone. I too, have sufferd a loss recently and it's amazing the kind words of comfort and well wishes you receive at these times to help lift your spirits. It would be a better place if we could keep this togetherness and tolerance throughout our journey, rather than just expressing them at moments of sorrow.
God bless you Derek. Hope your family and friends can find some comfort through your happiest memories.